HowTos Index
How To Give a Handjob to a Woman
A step by step guide on how to give a woman a handjob, with tips on anatomy, technique, using props, and communicating with your partner about handjobs.
How To Acheive Male Multiple Orgasms
An introductory how-to about male multiple orgasms. Explains the importance of breathe, awareness, and PC muscles to have non-ejaculatory orgasms that can prolong sexual pleasure and increase male sexual potential.
How To Tips for Mutual Masturbation
Mutual masturbation can be a fun, functional, and educational addition to any couples sex life. Whether you’re a shy introvert or a happy exhibitionist, learn tips for including mutual masturbation into your sexual repertoire.
How To Masturbation for Women
An introduction to female masturbation with step by step suggestions and tips for women to explore sexual response through masturbation. Includes information about clitoral stimulation, penetration, and g-spot.
How To Masturbation for Men
Ideas on how to explore and expand male masturbation techniques, with step by step suggestions and tips for men to explore sexual response through masturbation. Includes information about prostate stimulation, stroking techniques, and fantasy.
How To Give a Handjob
A step by step guide on how to give a man a handjob, with tips on anatomy, technique, using props, and communicating with your partner about handjobs.
How To Perform Cunnilingus
Tips on performing cunnilingus on a woman, also known as oral sex, giving head, and going down on a woman. Suggestions for oral sex techniques and a step by step guide.
How To Perform Fellatio
Tips on performing fellatio on a man, also known as oral sex, giving head, and giving a blow job. Suggestions for oral sex techniques and a step by step guide.
How To Talk About Differences in Sex Drive
Tips on how to talk about differences in sex drive and sexual interest in long term committed relationships. With links to the causes of sex drive differences and ways to address these differences.
How To Talk to Your Partner About Your Sexual Issues or Concerns
Offers concrete suggestions on raising sexual issues or concerns with a romantic partner. Communication tips, timing, location, and the importance of practicing before hand are discussed.
How To Talk Dirty
Suggestions on how to introduce “dirty talk” to your relationship, with tips on expanding your vocabulary of sex words, getting comfortable with dirty talk, and recommendations for more reading.
How To Talk about Sex and Infertility
Suggestions on how to talk with your partner about your sex life while dealing with infertility.
How To Put on a Female Condom
Instructions on how to put on and remove the female condom.
How To Put a Condom on withYour Mouth
Answers the question how do I put a condom on with my mouth, with step by step instructions on how to put a condom on with your mouth.
How To Use a Vibrator for Men
A beginner’s guide to using vibrators for men. Tips and techniques on using vibrators for external stimulation and penetration.
How To Use Penis Rings
A beginner’s guide to using penis rings.
How To Use Anal Beads
A beginner’s guide to using anal beads.
How To Use a Dildo
A beginner’s guide to using dildos. Tips and techniques on using dildos for vaginal and anal penetration.
How To Use a Vibrator for Women
A beginner’s guide to using vibrators for women. Tips and techniques on using vibrators for external stimulation and penetration.
How To Find and Stimulate the Prostate
A step by step guide to finding the prostate gland and prostate stimulation. Sometimes called the male g-spot or “prostate milking”, prostate massage can be intensely pleasurable for many men.
How To Choose Adult Movies
A guide to picking adult movies. Offers suggestions on how to choose adult movies for beginners to the world of adult entertainment.
How To Take Erotic Photographs
A beginner’s guide to taking erotic photographs from Christine Ablett. Suggestions on cameras, planning ahead, dealing with models, and setting the mood for an erotic photography shoot are offered.
How To Manage Sexual Side Effects of Prescription Medications
Ideas on managing the sexual side effects of prescription medications
How To increase sexual intimacy through sexual touch
A step by step guide to exploring sexual touch with your partner. Ideas on how to increase intimacy through sexual touch, and tips on ways to touch that will deepen your knowledge of your partner’s body and sexual response.
How To Explore Fantasy Sexual Role Play
Information and ideas on sexual fantasy role play, creating scenarios, developing characters, finding costumes and props, and setting ground rules for safe and fun sexual fantasy role play.